Good sex without penetration

BCBenefits makes it easier than ever to get birth control for free. There are as many reasons to have sex without penetration also known as outercourse as there are people who want to have sex without penetration. Penetration is not the end goal of sex. You get to decide what sex is for you. You can exclusively stick to all those good bits on the outside.

Here's how. Most Americans define sex as intercourse. The old in-and-out can be great fun, sure, but it also tends to frustrate many older couples. Even when aided by erection medication, older men may have difficulty accomplishing it.

We know that the vast majority of women need sexual acts besides penetration like clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and that there are loads of parts of sex that are brilliant beside penis-in-vagina action. Experiment with different types of touch and pressure to see what suits best, as each individual has their own preferences. A reminder: the vagina is the internal bit, the vulva is the bit you can see — so the tip of the clitoris and the labia. Go for oral or manual stimulation of the clitoris, trying gentle taps, strokes, and licks, and challenge yourself not to go deeper.

To say we live in a culture obsessed with sexualization and the sensationalization thereof is an understatement. And in this profoundly distracted spirit of sensationalization, patriarchal culture in general, and mainstream porn culture in particular, is obsessed with the act of penetration. Don't get me wrong. I'm a huge fan of penetration in its many forms.