Better anal penetration

Despite there being a healthy renaissance for butt play in recent years, backdoor entry is still a deal-breaker for many women — a no-way, no-how, entirely off-limits scenario. Still, more than a third of women For some women, like me, anal sex can be a mind-blowing addition to the bedroom. Anal sex has always been a welcome precursor to vaginal penetration and other below-the-belt play. The key, for me, is to have a patient partner — one whom I trust. Oh, and plenty of lube.

Maybe you've always found anal sex intriguing but never worked up the guts to try it, or perhaps you weren't curious until a friend started singing its praises. No matter the reason behind your attraction to the idea, diving into that uncharted sexual territory can be scary. What if it hurts like crazy? Or you completely lose control of your bowels at the worst moment possible? There are plenty of valid concerns, but it's also possible to overcome those feelings and potentially discover a mind-blowing new activity that becomes a bedroom staple. Here, two experts explain everything you need to know about anal sex before you try it.

If you've ever asked people how they feel about anal sex , you already know that's a divided topic. Wild myths and societal taboos tend to do that. But isn't it fun to dispel myths and engage in as many taboos as possible? I think so.

Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Another major perk? Some women even experience full-on anal orgasms. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.